Are Palestinians Human?
by Sam and Leila Bahour*
As Israeli warplanes pounded Palestinian cities, Israel's media spin-
doctor, Benjamin Netanyahu, was being interviewed on the Fox
News Channel where he likened Arafat to Osama bin Laden and
accused him of having "suicide kindergarten camps for kids to
prepare the next generation of suicide bombers" (Dec. 3, 2001). It
is exactly this type of hogwash that leads to innocent Palestinian
and Israeli lives being lost to desperation. Mr. Netanyahu should
be incarcerated for inciting ethnic violence and hatred.
Regarding the Palestinian children living in the Occupied
Territories, if there is any hatred toward Israelis brewing in their
eyes, it is not being taught to them by any parent, school, church
or mosque. These feelings, if exist, come out of the incidents that
occur daily in their lives (Israeli F-16 planes circling above their
homes and dropping missiles which kill a parent, uncle, aunt,
cousin, or school mate, their schools being closed, their inability to
play in their yards, etc.). What Israel has been and continues to
create is a generation of Palestinian children suffering from Post
Traumatic Stress Disorder as a direct result of the Israeli
occupation. Unfortunately, the world has turned a blind eye to the
atrocities conducted by Israel and somehow has turned the
Palestinian child into an aggressor only worthy of death.
Listening to the mini-army of Israeli media spin personalities, one
is led to ask if Palestinians are really human. For 15 months now,
Israel's well-defined whirlwind media effort has been preciously
focused on promoting its insidious campaign to dehumanize the
Palestinian people.
Assuming Palestinians are no different than any other people (they
have two arms, two legs and all major organs), we then should take
a step back from the nightly news and media spin and understand
why any Palestinian would commit suicide, let alone take innocent
Israeli lives with his own. Since Palestinians are human, the
sciences apply to them just as it does to the rest of humanity.
Edwin Shneidman, a clinical psychologist who is a leading
authority on suicide, and who is sometimes called the Father of
modern Suicidology, has described the ten characteristics of
suicide in his book "Definition of Suicide" (1985).
- The common stimulus in suicide is "unendurable psychological
pain".
- The common stress in suicide is "frustrated psychological
needs".
- The common purpose of suicide is "to seek a solution".
- The common goal of suicide is "cessation of consciousness".
- The common emotion in suicide is "hopelessness-
helplessness".
- The common internal attitude toward suicide is "ambivalence".
- The common cognitive state in suicide is "constriction".
- The common interpersonal act in suicide is "communication of
intention".
- The common action in suicide is "egression" (a way out).
- The common consistency in suicide is with "life-long coping
patterns".
If these are the findings of science, then why is it that the
investigative reporters of the world do not enter the lives of these
bombers to see if they fit the profile of a suicidal person? Why the
immediate acceptance of the Israeli spin machine that
Palestinians, in some twisted logic, take happiness in killing
themselves and others. Worse yet, why do some try to
understand the bombings in terms of being part of some
orchestrated media campaign that can be turned on or off at will?
As we look at the research on suicide and try to understand the
mind of the suicidal individual, the picture should become clearer
as to how these characteristics apply to a Palestinian suicide
attacker.
Dr. Shneidman states in his article "At The Point Of No Return" in
Psychology Today (1987, p.56), "Suicide, I have learned is not a
bizarre and incomprehensible act of self destruction. Rather,
suicidal people use a particular logic, style of thinking that brings
them to the conclusion that death is the only solution to their
problems. This style can be readily seen, and there are steps we
can take to stop suicide, if we know where to look".
Although this research applies to suicidal individuals and not
necessarily suicide bombers which take additional innocent lives
with their act, through studying the ten characteristics of the
suicidal individual, it certainly seems they apply even more so to
the suicidal bomber. These individuals seek to escape
overwhelming emotional pain. Shneidman terms this "metapain"
(hurt and pain on top of hurt and pain). So, from where does this
hurt and pain come? If only the answer were as simple as the
question. Living under Israeli occupation for years with basic
human rights stripped away and collective punishment the norm
would be the best one sentence answer that could be offered at
this time.
Another quote that seems to apply from Shneidman (1985) is,
"There are many pointless deaths but never a needless suicide".
Every suicide seems logical to the individual who commits it. In a
suicidal individual's mind, suicide is the only way out of an
unbearable situation. A person can only cry so long with nobody
listening before his options become constricted and suicide seems
to him the only answer. In working with the "typical" suicidal
individual, the first step is listening and trying to understand the
pain, frustration and hopelessness/helplessness that he is feeling.
"Hopelessness" and "helplessness" exactly describe the feelings
of the Palestinian people living under occupation. It seems nobody
wants to hear the reality of the situation but at the same time
everyone seems so willing to label and then be in astonishment
when one of these horrendous acts is committed. It is past time to
look at the reality and begin to provide other viable options to the
Palestinian people. A simple start to begin with would be giving
them their dignity and right to existence without occupation.
Suicide bombers are never ever justified in their actions but those
who want to try to understand may understand their motivation. To
reach a logical conclusion of why these horrific events take place,
one must scratch below the surface that the sustained Israeli
occupation has made thicker and thicker with every passing year
since 1967. Further complicating matters, Israel has been
successful in allowing the passive observer to the conflict equate
the actions and mindset of the occupied with those of the occupier.
This equality is unfair, illogical and unscientific.
We must separate between those who carry out deplorable suicide
attacks, those innocent victims of the attacks and those that
politically plan, fund, and recruit for the attacks. The overwhelming
majority of those who carry out the attacks are no more than
normal young men, either born into Israeli occupation or still
imprisoned by many years of it. They are victims of Israeli policies
of dehumanization and continued military occupation. They lack
any means of military resistance while facing a world-class military
machine. As one of my readers of a past article stated, "[If only
the media would cover] who they were, what their lives were like,
who and what were left behind -- it would be a whole different story
about public perception of the problem in Israel and Occupied
Territories."
The innocent Israeli lives, especially those of the children, which
such attacks so abruptly end, are only to be mourned by Israelis
and Palestinians alike. Their memories should serve as an eternal
burden to all sides that without an end to the occupation there are
no winners or losers, only more mourners on both sides.
As for those political entities that breed in the desperation that
occupation has created, they take innocent Israeli lives by
exploiting Palestinians in despair while simultaneously stripping
their own people of any political agenda, or even legitimate armed
resistance agenda, for ending occupation. They thrive on
disruption and chaos with a clear political goal of complicating any
chance for a negotiated solution. These entities perfectly fit Israeli
Prime Minister Ariel Sharon's strategy of ending the potential for a
negotiated peace. Sharon continues to give them, non-stop, since
his election to office, ripe grounds to operate from--economic
despair, closures, assassinations, etc. Those that facilitate such
attacks could not have asked for a better Israeli leader, one that
has given them a never ending seven day grace period to kill more
Israelis.
The US has joined the Israeli media chorus in demanding Arafat to
do more to stop the suicide bombings. Arafat only wishes he had
the power to stop the suicide attacks. He does not, for he cannot
end occupation. Israel, and only Israel, can stop the suicide
attacks by giving back Palestinians their freedom, dignity and a
reason to live by ending 34 years of their brutal military occupation
and 54 years of suffering. To the person who thinks in absolute
terms, this may seem like Israel would be giving in to a suicide
bomber. On the contrary, to the rational, intelligent human being
who knows that the world does not operate on historical or religious
slogans, but rather "reality", this would be looking at the underlying
problem rather than adopting a simplistic "Band-Aid" approach
defined by Israel.
If Israel refuses to accept its historic responsibility to end its
terrorizing of the Palestinians, then, sadly, it should not question
why science applies to the Palestinian people. As Palestinians
and Israelis continue to bury and weep for their innocent victims,
Palestinians and Israelis alike, the world would be well advised to
remove its head from the sand.
December 5, 2001
* Sam Bahour, MBA, and Leila Bahour, M.S.Ed., L.P.C., are
Palestinian-Americans and brother and sister. Sam is a
businessman living in the besieged Palestinian City of Al-Bireh in
the West Bank and frequently writes on Palestinian affairs. He
may be reached at sbahour@palnet.com. Leila is a Counselor at a
Psychological Outpatient Counseling Practice in the US who has
worked in the psychological field for eleven years. She spent a
considerable amount of time dedicated to the research of suicide
during her pursuit of her Master's degree and has treated suicidal
individuals daily in her work over the years.
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